by Guillermo Vidal | Aug 22, 2021 | Finding Love After Divorce
I was reading an article the other day that stated that 51% of people between the ages of 18 and 34 do not have a steady romantic partner. It also mentioned this trend is up from 45% since 2016 and continues to rise. The author concluded there are no signs that show...
by Guillermo Vidal | Aug 15, 2021 | Finding Love After Divorce
Having spent a half a dozen years living alone after my divorce, I have come to terms with the difference between being alone and being lonely. Although they can be related, they are not the same. We cannot control or change the factors that led to us being alone, but...
by Guillermo Vidal | May 9, 2021 | Finding Love After Divorce
It is a sign of the times that divorce continues to be at the highest rates ever. Some view this to be a bad thing, as the end of a long-term relationship can leave a person feeling alone and discouraged. But just like every life challenge offers new and better...
by Guillermo Vidal | Apr 18, 2021 | Finding Love After Divorce
During a visit I made to Spain, there was a sign in the corner of a small tapas restaurant in Madrid that caught my eye. It contained this quote from Mexican painter Frida Kahlo, “Take a lover who looks at you and sees magic.” I have to admit it but Kahlo’s wisdom...
by Guillermo Vidal | Aug 3, 2020 | Finding Love After Divorce
There was a time when propagating was our species’ highest priority. History tells us that Neanderthal man and woman partnered up and created offspring. As the concept of family developed, having an exclusive love partner, or spouse and having children became the...
by Guillermo Vidal | Apr 22, 2020 | Finding Love After Divorce
What makes less sense, beating a dead horse or watering a dead plant? Does it matter what time of year you do this? This is how nonsensical the logic behind our excuses to stay in dysfunctional relationships sounds like. What good does it do for two people in a bad...