by Guillermo Vidal | Jul 6, 2020 | Becoming Your Best Self
Our fears initiated our negative self-beliefs into existence. They could have been triggered by a terrible childhood event, or one that caused a painful loss. Perhaps it is a personality trait that people around you judge negatively. Whatever it is, this hidden part...
by Guillermo Vidal | Jul 1, 2020 | Becoming Your Best Self
Whenever people around me talk to each other as though I wasn’t there, I use a line to get their attention I learned long ago, “What am I? A Potted Plant?”. Brendan V. Sullivan, attorney for Marine Lieutenant-Colonel Oliver North during the Iran-Contra hearings is...
by Guillermo Vidal | Jun 22, 2020 | Becoming Your Best Self
Many people settle for unsatisfactory choices in the major areas of their lives, like career or relationships. There is a good reason for this if you are from my generation, the Baby Boomers. We grew up being told to be logical, to choose things that will please our...
by Guillermo Vidal | Jun 17, 2020 | Becoming Your Best Self
Everyone knows how to get their problems fixed. We take a toothache to a dentist, a cold to a doctor, a sore back to a chiropractor. Masseuses help us loosen up and relax. Dieticians give us advice on what to eat. Many have a ready lists ranging from plumbers to...
by Guillermo Vidal | Jun 10, 2020 | Becoming Your Best Self
There is an adage claiming terrible things come in threes. There is no data to back this up because perception is subjective, what some judge as awful, others don’t. This adage amounts to nothing is more than a person trying to find logic in the random events that...
by Guillermo Vidal | Jun 8, 2020 | Becoming Your Best Self
We have become a fear-based culture. We fear not being properly insured, missing out on an activity, not having the best car or living in the right neighborhood, not having enough money. One need only look at our nightly news to understand that we lust for a regular...
