by Guillermo Vidal | May 23, 2021 | Becoming Your Best Self
We are all guilty of being dishonest. We lie about our age, weight, or why we are late. Some cheat on their taxes, others on their spouses. Some embellish their experience and education on their resumes. Deceiving others is so common in our culture that many assume it...
by Guillermo Vidal | May 16, 2021 | Becoming Your Best Self
It is easy to lose hope that we can bridge our country’s ideological divide. More than ever, we must try, but we need to do something different to create unity; we must listen and understand those who differ from us. Asking someone to explain their opinion is a...
by Guillermo Vidal | May 9, 2021 | Finding Love After Divorce
It is a sign of the times that divorce continues to be at the highest rates ever. Some view this to be a bad thing, as the end of a long-term relationship can leave a person feeling alone and discouraged. But just like every life challenge offers new and better...
by Guillermo Vidal | May 3, 2021 | Becoming Your Best Self
What is your favorite brand to put on people? Epithets like redneck, communist, socialist, asshole, lowlife, uneducated, high-maintenance and loudmouthed are common ones. There are others that don’t seem so offensive but put boundaries around the targeted person’s...
by Guillermo Vidal | Apr 18, 2021 | Finding Love After Divorce
During a visit I made to Spain, there was a sign in the corner of a small tapas restaurant in Madrid that caught my eye. It contained this quote from Mexican painter Frida Kahlo, “Take a lover who looks at you and sees magic.” I have to admit it but Kahlo’s wisdom...