by Guillermo Vidal | Jan 13, 2020 | Finding Love After Divorce
We make it hard to let go of situations that are bad for us. This is particularly true when it comes to love relationships. Even when the evidence is in front of us, we analyze and rationalize another’s behavior in a way that postpones our responsibility to take...
by Guillermo Vidal | Jan 8, 2020 | Inspiring Leadership
For some strange reason, I always tried to scare the crap out of my children when I wanted them to stop doing something. “You will get sick if you eat all of that candy.” Funny advice coming from me considering I am the one who got them the candy in the first place....
by Guillermo Vidal | Jan 6, 2020 | Becoming Your Best Self
Ringing in the New Year with a plethora of resolutions is a well-known aspect of this annual celebration. The will to adhere to them is always strong in the new year’s first days, but come the second week in January, the desire to change has gone as if they were...
by Guillermo Vidal | Dec 30, 2019 | Spiritual Development
Nothing is permanent in life. Yet, we assign permanency to many situations, like having good health, or being with one partner in a long-term romantic union. When these things diminish or go away, we find ourselves caught in a quagmire of negative emotions. Our ego...
by Guillermo Vidal | Dec 23, 2019 | Aging Well
The other day, I was driving late on my way to meet friends and play tennis. There was no one else to blame for my belatedness but me, as I had over-scheduled myself with too many activities. This is something I often do. But I took no responsibility. From the moment...