Why It is Important to Follow Your Heart Wherever It Takes You

by Guillermo Vidal | Dec 19, 2018 | Becoming Your Best Self

Although we have been getting heart messages from the time we were born, it is difficult for most of us to understand what it means to follow your heart. We are so accustomed to getting our happiness cues from external sources we have lost touch with our inner...

You Were not Meant to Live Without Purpose, so Get Off Your Ass and Find Something Meaningful to Do.

by Guillermo Vidal | Dec 17, 2018 | Becoming Your Best Self

In whatever form it is that you know the creative source of all things (God, Higher Power, Allah, etc.), one thing is certain, this is Higher Being is growing, creating and evolving. Created in his/her image and likeness, we were meant to live every minute in the same...

The American Dream You are Chasing is a Hoax

by Guillermo Vidal | Dec 5, 2018 | Becoming Your Best Self

From the moment you were born, the surrounding people—parents, siblings, teachers, extended family—have been helping to mold you into a member of society. This is not a bad thing, for had our ancestors from the Stone Age not formed societies, our species would not...

The Person Stopping You from Being all You Can Be is You.

by Guillermo Vidal | Dec 3, 2018 | Becoming Your Best Self

I have tried every scheme known to humans on how to avoid taking responsibility for my life. All of my failures were somebody else’s fault, or they stacked the odds against me. My list was long on excuses and short on accountability. It is no great mystery why I...

Remember to do these Six Things to Get You Past the Holidays Feeling Fine

by Guillermo Vidal | Nov 26, 2018 | Becoming Your Best Self

With the Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade kicking off the official Christmas Season, I am reminded of the things that have helped me transcend them over the years. I stopped paying attention to the holidays after my second divorce four years ago. Being part of two former...

Here Are Three Ways to Surround Yourself with People Who Help You Become Your Highest Self

by Guillermo Vidal | Nov 21, 2018 | Becoming Your Best Self

Not all relationships are healthy for you. This applies to anyone around you whether they be family members, friends you grew up with, coworkers, religious leaders and so on. This was a hard lesson for me to accept because I was so invested in pleasing people and...