Trust Your Journey of Self Fulfillment

by Guillermo Vidal | Sep 14, 2020 | Becoming Your Best Self

I have never been comfortable letting go of control. I want what I want when I want it and don’t want to leave it up to chance. Trusting a Higher Power is very intimidating, and it takes great effort for me to let go and wait for the openings the Universe gives me....

You Cannot Find Fulfillment by Ignoring Your Highest Self

by Guillermo Vidal | Aug 31, 2020 | Becoming Your Best Self

Until a few years ago, I believed being patient was for losers; winners made their own way. The proverb, “where there is a will, there is a way” had me convinced that—if I wanted something bad enough—I had to rely on my willpower to make things happen exactly as I...

Making Peace with an Unrepentant Abuser

by Guillermo Vidal | Jul 27, 2020 | Becoming Your Best Self

Whenever I remember my father and mother, I am reminded of the thorny relationship I shared with both of them. Physical and emotional abuse played such an enormous part of our time together. It is not my intent to tarnish their memory, I bring it up because,...

Every Person is Doing the Best They Know How

by Guillermo Vidal | Jul 13, 2020 | Becoming Your Best Self

There are two habits every person is often engaged in; judging and comparing ourselves to others. God knows, I am expert on these practices, so I know well why we engage in these things so often. We judge others in order to feel superior to them or to justify our...

Every Ending Marks a New Beginning

by Guillermo Vidal | Jul 8, 2020 | Becoming Your Best Self

Spring and summer remind me of the emerging human spirit. Watching a new plant powering through the barren ground into the light of the sun is a metaphor for the incredible resurgent powers that every person possesses. Just like a plant, we are often called to fight...

To Live Authentically You Must Embrace What You Hide 

by Guillermo Vidal | Jul 6, 2020 | Becoming Your Best Self

Our fears initiated our negative self-beliefs into existence. They could have been triggered by a terrible childhood event, or one that caused a painful loss. Perhaps it is a personality trait that people around you judge negatively. Whatever it is, this hidden part...